Grieving is an important process for healing.

Most of us experience grief at some stage of our lives, and although grief is most closely associated with coping with the loss of someone close to us through death – a spouse, friend, a family member – we also experience grief in response to other losses in life: a job, a close relationship, our health. Few people have any preparation for handling grief, and are not equipped to support family members and friends at times of grief and personal loss. Often people can have feelings which are frightening and painful, odd and even bizarre. But many of these feelings and responses are very normal and part of the process which must be worked through to resolve grief.

Pain is a subjective experience and whatever the cause there is little value in making comparisons about the feelings and responses one has. There is a universal need to express grief, depending on the individual and it is important to remember the feelings you experience are healthy, normal and part of the healing process. Failure to express them can often lead to more intense reactions including physical illness.

Grief and Healing

Grieving is important for healing and you may experience a wide range of feelings- shock, sadness, anger, guilt, depression and despair as well as relief, hope and acceptance. Seeking professional help at the time of loss can ensure the process of healing is occurring in a way with minimal prolonged impact to our lives and can leave us less prone to physical and psychological illness. It is important we understand the significant impact and the need to heal well. If you have experienced loss and bereavement it is not a time to minimise or deny your emotional, physiological and psychological responses but to understand them and find healthy ways to express what you are experiencing.

Grief therapist Nowra
Grief Counsellor Nowra


  • Seek and accept support – you do not have to work through grief on your own.
  • Accept your grief – accept you will not be your normal self in the midst of grief and you need time to experience the pain and sorrow to be able to heal.
  • Exercise, sleep and diet – are all important to try to maintain. They assist to alleviate stress and mental anxiety by releasing endorphins.
  • Cry – crying is important to release stress hormones and other toxins. It doesn’t make you weak, it can actually strengthen you emotionally and physically.


Prostate Cancer Prevalence, Treatment and Effects

Prostate Cancer Prevalence, Treatment and Effects

Prostate cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer affecting Australian males and is estimated to be the second most common cancer in Australia in 2020. So many of you reading this may know someone who has had prostate cancer

From Little Things Big Things Grow

From Little Things Big Things Grow

There are times when I say to a client “…look how far you’ve come. Remember when we first met…?” Just this sentence can be a topic of discussion. It is such a privilege seeing a person (or a couple) reflect on their own growth

What Psychological Assessment might my child or I need?

What Psychological Assessment might my child or I need?

At Shoalhaven Psychology Services we conduct a range of assessments that assist in providing you with diagnosis, recommendations and information about a number of issues such as Specific Learning Disorders, Intellectual Disability, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and Autism Spectrum Disorder. We can also assess for Giftedness in school-aged children.

“When it seems that our sorrow is too great to be borne, let us think of that great family of the heavy-hearted into which our grief has given us entrance, and inevitably, we will feel about us their arms, their sympathy, their understanding.”

Helen Keller